Warning – if you’re not interested in NLP you might want to skip this post.
Neuro-linguistic Programming for Dummies appeared on the reading list for my Hypnotherapy Diploma Course, which was handy as i’d been given a copy for Christmas and was halfway through it when I started the course.
I’ve been interested in NLP for several years without any clear understanding of what it is. Unfortunately, this book really hasn’t helped in that respect. The formal definition of NLP, given at the beginning of the book is “the study of the structure of your subjective experience”. While the authors can’t really be blamed for this, I really didn’t feel that definition helped me at all. And by the end of the book I was none the wiser.
One of the problems with NLP is the huge amount of jargon involved – modalities, submodalities, meta models, logical levels, anchors. All of these terms need to be clearly understood in order to make any sense of the subject, but this book seems very vague on what some of these mean and of what relevance they have. An attempt is made to demonstrate the practical use of some of these concepts by way of anecdotes, but far too many of these relate to corporate business situations which are of limited interest to the general reader and turned me (as anti-corporate as it’s possible to be) right off.
The elements of NLP that have been introduced in my course so far have tended to be organically drawn out of examples of their use – the anecdote comes first, followed by an explanation of the point it demonstrates. This makes them far more palatable and understandable.
It may well be that NLP is not a subject that can easily be learnt from a book and the authors have actually made a valiant but failed attempt at sharing their knowledge of the subject. I’ll probably come back to this book when I know more about it – maybe my opinion will change.
But probably not – I forgot to mention that it’s really boringly written!